Li: | Hello and welcome to The English We Speak. I'm Li and with me is Rob. Hi Rob. |
Rob: | Hi Li. It looks like you've been busy. |
Li: | I've just picked up some groceries from the local shop, you knowmilk, eggs, bread, flourI'm going to make a cake. |
Rob: | Oh good. So how was Mr Brown, the shopkeeper? Hasn't he just split up with his wife? |
Li: | He has. It was tricky in the shop. I didn't want to say anything to him just in case I mentioned his wife. I only said: "Good morning", and he just said: "Is it?" |
Rob: | Hmm, it sounds like you've been treading on eggshells. |
Li: | Oh no, the shop was very clean, nothing on the floorI don't really think he's the sort of person to throw food around! |
Rob: | No LiI mean you were trying very hard not to upset himthat's what treading on eggshells means. |
Li: | Oh! So it's about being niceit's about being sensitive to the situation? |
Rob: | Yes. |
Li: | Well, I was very sensitive. But what have eggshells got to do with it? |
Rob: | Well, if there were eggshells on the floor literally you would have to be very careful where you put your feet! |
Li: | OK, but this phrase means you are being careful about what you say. Let's hear some examples: |
| I had to be so careful with what I said to my ex-girlfriend. The smallest thing made her angry: it was like treading on eggshells. |
| Ever since my argument with my neighbour about parking, I feel like I've been treading on eggshells. |
- Since my friend's father died, I don't know what to say to him: it's like treading oneggshells.
Li: | So, treading on eggshells can be awkward because you don't know what to say and you don't want to offend someone. So Rob, what should I have said to Mr Brown? |
Rob: | You could have said 'plenty more fish in the sea!' |
Li: | What?! |
Rob: | Or ... 'I didn't like her much anyway'? |
Li: | Rob, I think that's the opposite of treading on eggshells. |
Rob: | Really? Anyway let me help you with your shopping ... oops (Rob drops the eggs!). |
Li: | Rob! You've dropped the eggs all over my kitchen floor. |
Rob: | Now you really will be walking on eggshells! |
Li: | That's not funny. |
Rob: | I didn't like your cakes much anyway. |
Both: | Bye. |